"It's not only possible, but it's the best kind of sexy," - said an anonymous hot chic at an AA meeting in Oakland, California.

Welcome! Thank you for stopping by. I started my relationship with sobriety on October 20, 2018. Since then, I've had three dreadful first dates with Day One. My most recent sobriety date is the Day of the Dead: November 2, 2019. One of my greatest fears, that kept me drinking for far too long, was the fear that I would never, ever, be fun or exciting or attractive again if I stopped drinking. What a BIG lie, I told myself. Here is my journey, and some suggested for my fellow Oakland ladies, searching for true sobriety.